“Peace is not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives for responding to conflict – alternatives to passive or aggressive responses, alternatives to violence.”
MEDIATION – I am happy to announce that I am officially offering my services as a family law mediator. I am excited to begin applying my years of experience as a family law attorney to a new aspect of the legal process. So far we have had an 85% success rate with some very difficult cases included.
As anyone who has ever worked with me already knows, I believe in compromise and pragmatic cooperation. I have handled some very hard cases and in many of those cases the parties thought there was no way to settlement. While a precious few cases need to be tried to a Court, most can be settled. I explore solutions and options rather than focus on the differences. I have found that this philosophy has served all parties involved better than any other approach and I welcome the opportunity to help you achieve the same fair and effective results in mediation.
“A good lawyer knows the Law, a great lawyer knows the Judge.” After practicing law as long as I have, you see many of your attorney friends take the bench as judges. Having a good relationship with the Judges in charge of your case and learning their philosophies and tendencies on family law issues enables me to make a very good estimate of what the Judge is likely to do. This information enables you to make a better informed decision on settlement. Drawing on my familiarity with the local Judges combined with many many hours spent in mediation in my career, I am confident that I can help you amicably resolve your case or at least many of the issues so that your trial time is narrowed down and you can save money.
COSTS – Our mediation rates are $150.00 per hour with a minimum of two hours. The costs will be divided equally between the parties unless otherwise agreed to. Thus, the total cost for a two hour mediation will be $300.00 and each party should bring $150.00 cash, money order or credit or debit card. Additional time spent on the mediation is billed at $150.00 per hour. A copy of the mediation agreement and directions and all other particulars will be mailed to the attorneys mediating the case and/or the parties or pro se litigants. Here is a sample of the letter you should review prior to mediation explaining the costs, procedure and responsibilities of both parties and the mediator.
PARTIES WITHOUT ATTORNEYS – In Oklahoma, parties who already have a custody order, such as a Joint Custody Plan, are REQUIRED to attend mediation in good faith to resolve their conflicts prior to going back to Court. We can help with that. The procedures are mostly the same as above. Simply contact your ex-spouse/ex-partner and after discussing it, provide us with contact information for both of you and we will set up and confirm a mediation for you. Many times mediation is less than two hours, depending on the issue. Should one party confirm and then fail to appear without cause, we can write a letter to the Court stating you attempted mediation in good faith and the other party did not.
AVAILABILITY – We have many available mediation dates, and I encourage you to contact us if you have special needs or need special unlisted times or other circumstances that need to be addressed. Generally we have mediation in the morning or the afternoon, we can work on the start times with you, the default time is 10:00 am in the morning or 1:30 pm in the afternoon. The calendar below shows available mediation dates and times … the green dates are open, orange dates are booked, yellow dates are pending, and the orange dates with a small clock are partially booked … partially booked means either the afternoon or morning time slot is open but not both. Hover over the partially booked days to see what is available, or simply call us and we will help. Our telephone number is 918-794-5587, or you can fax us at 918-794-5827 or email my assistant at firstname.lastname@example.org for further information about scheduling your next mediation.
INSTRUCTIONS – To use the calendar below, just click on an available date and complete the contact form with your preferred time slot (morning or afternoon) and we will book the date for you and send you confirmation and all the mediation information you need. The calendar is updated daily so if you are at the Courthouse, look up our available dates without having to call…. And don’t worry, if you are busy like me or just want to be extra sure about booking, have someone call and we will gladly do it all for you.