I have been a licensed practicing attorney in Tulsa since 1993. I went to Bishop Kelley High School here in Tulsa, Oklahoma and have a lot of family and friends in the Tulsa area. I graduated from The University of Tulsa College of Law and went to work during law school for a group of well respected sole practitioners as a legal intern. As a legal intern I was fortunate to work for a few trial attorneys and I learned a lot about actually trying a case. Upon passing the bar and getting sworn in as an attorney, I joined the attorneys I had worked for and set up my own solo practice law firm and continued in trial practice and family law. Ever since opening my own firm, I have absolutely enjoyed working in a firm that doesn’t have to bill a large number of hours or have staff meetings every day. Most importantly, working for myself allows myself and my clients can get to know each other and get the best result possible.
I have gone through the divorce process and, even though we had an agreed divorce, it was an emotional roller coaster. But we did have two fantastic children, Michael and Madalene. I learn things from them that legal seminars cannot teach. The “hands on” training of being a parent cannot be taught and I learn something new every day. My free time is spent with them or playing golf. I love to read and socialize. I am actually on the Tulsa County Bar Foundations’ golf committee so I can spend time with lawyers and Judges and enjoy playing golf! I have to say, golf is great, but the kid’s activities are my favorite things in the world!
When I started some twenty years ago family law was far less complex than it is today. The law is continually changing and more and more requirements are made upon families going through the Court system. I attend continuing education seminars annually to stay abreast of the ever changing cases and laws affecting family law. I have spoken and taught at a number of continuing education seminars as well. I have also been very involved in making contacts with other divorce lawyers, mediators, custody evaluators, counselors and other professionals in an effort to help clients with whatever needs they may have. My practice is family law and I have found that the more help you have in the community, the easier it is for the client to get all the resources they need to make the process as peaceful as possible.
Despite all the changes with the Courts and the law, I believe that I work in a service profession and that service and profession define what I do. To me, service is meant to be personal. When you hire me to help you, you meet with me, you can contact me whenever you have a question, and, you are never given to an associate or paralegal. I know my clients on a first name basis and will work your case as if it is my own. You get to look me in the eye and shake my hand. It is important to me because I work on a referral basis meaning that when I do a great job for you, you will tell someone about my services and they will call. I also am a professional. When you discuss your personal and private details, no one ever gets to know our conversation. You are treated with respect. You will always get my honest opinion, even when it isn’t what you were expecting to hear. I feel that my job is to give you all the pros and cons of all the legal options and together we resolve your case in your and your family’s best interests. I also enjoy trial work and have enjoyed a lot of success in the Courtroom. As an alternative to trial and litigation, I perform meditations for parties who prefer to settle matters with someone with a lot of knowledge and experience in family law cases.